First time woes...
Hi girls,
So last year I started dating this guy and decided that I might as well lose my virginity to him. Even though I was 20; I wasn't saving it for anything, I just wasn't really social, and didn't see sex as a big deal.
Anyways, I really wasn't into it, foreplay only lasted like 5 minutes, and he knew I was a virgin so he should've known that my muscles weren't relaxed enough or probably not even wet enough. So it began and I swear to god it was the most excruciating pain in my life, I'd rather of had appendicitis again. I had to tell him to stop after awhile because I was literally in so much pain that I was holding back from crying.
He tried again in the morning but I was so sore from the night before I couldn't go through with it.
Is it supposed to hurt so much? I kept thinking is this normal? I've read up on so many women having painful sex every time and that scared me because I was a very sexual person...
I broke up with him a couple of weeks later because I couldn't get over the fact that he hurt me so much, unintentional of course but every time I saw him all I could think of was the pain... Is that ridiculous?
Now I'm afraid to go out and date, I don't think I can handle the pain again...
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