should I be questioning things?

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I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. Im only 20 and we purchased our first house together when I was 19. It seems we moved pretty fast as we knew we loved one another but we moved in together at 6 months and lived together since then and have been in two rental properties and finally bought a house. But he hasn't asked me to marry him and hasn't showed interest in marriage. He wants kids NOW and we've been trying to conceive with no luck. But I don't know, shouldn't he already have popped the question?

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I mean being married doesn't change him loving you, he could be trying to save up to get a nice ring or anything.

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Alllllll these should have been addressed BEFORE buying a home together. 
Seriously,  how can u buy a home with someone when u have no clue what they want in terms of marriage. And WHY did u not discuss the kids situation before buying a home?  Seriously, all these are important questions and u both need to be on the same page before buying a home together. 
If he says he doesn't want to get married and he absolutely wants kids now. . What will happen?

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I have a child with my SO and we've been together for almost a year and a half. Although he has shown interest in getting married one day &I calls my his wife to everyone, he still puts off the commitment. I felt as though he didn't really want to get married but he isn't one to rush into that commitment. We do love each other and we plan on getting married one day, but are just taking it day by day! Don't think into it much. You're married by Law, you just don't have the piece of paper to "verify" it.

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You need to talk to him, these are things that should have been discuss over the 2 yr relationship, and before buying a house: speak with him find out where he's at and then take it from there

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Some people aren't interested in marriage. If it is something you want you need to talk to him about it.

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Im sorry But why haven't you talked about this.

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You are so young. I agree that you should have a talk with him but I also don't think that you HAVE to get married right away. My husband and I started dated when we were 17. We lived together right after high school and he didn't propose until we were 24. We've now been married 4 years and are super happy. 
With all that said, I don't think you should try to have a baby with someone you are not married to- or at least until you know he is committed to you for the long haul and maybe just doesn't want to get married. Talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. That is the only way things will change. Just be open and honest! 
Good luck!

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Well I feel as if I really do want marriage but also if we never married it doesn't change how I feel about him. I guess I just have that wedding fantasy in my head and can't get it out

should I be questioning things?

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