I lied...

So, I'm dating this guy that I met on a dating site and ...the first date he asked me if I messed around with anyone else on the site before . I messed around with one guy on the dating site before that I had been talking to for a while but I ended up finding out he had a gf so I ended things with him. When the new guy asked me , I just blurted out no .. I lied. He could tell because he said "are you sure?? You look confused and seem unsure "... Again I said "no". I'm not exactly sure why I didn't just tell him the truth . I guess I didn't want him to look at me differently .

Fast forward to yesterday. he was on hold on his phone and needed to pay the phone bill for his business so I let him use my phone. He leaves the room and goes to his office so that the lady could walk him through accessing his profile online . When the conversation ended he didn't say anything to me... It was silence. I figured he was going through my phone. Which he was because when I got my phone back the messages between the other guy I met from the dating site was on the screen. I genuinely wasn't speaking to him anymore but out text messages were pretty intimate. We spent the day together as if nothing was happened and as I was getting ready to leave he makes a comment about needing confirmation on our situation. I said "If you want to make me your girl friend... You need to ask me" he says idk... Are you talking to other people? I said no .I last person I was speaking to was (the other guy) and I ended things with him awhile ago. He said where did you meet him? I said "the dating site".. Boom. I was caught in my lie and I knew it. He was upset that I had lied to him and my excuse was that Ihad only known him for a few hours when he asked me something so personal and my first reaction was to just say no. However, I said I was sorry and asked him if he forgives me.. He said No, I don't forgive you right now.

This was yesterday and I haven't heard from him since.

I understand that lying was wrong... But I dont feel like its serious to the point where he should cut me off. i also feel like him going through my phone was l wrong.