I just got dumped by text.
Hi ladies. I'm 21 and I met my boyfriend, 22, a year ago. We've been together ten months. We've had our issues because he lied to me about stuff which made stuff harder. So I'd question him sometimes but improved a lot. He is my first love and the first guy I ever told my parents about. We were even together a few days ago. This morning he randomly texts me saying he can't do it anymore and his heart isn't in it and he doesn't feel like trying to work stuff out. And it sucks because e was gonna meet my whole family next week and he was supposed to be my date to my university senior ball that I paid so much for (Idc about that but I was so excited to go with him). I tell myself it was for the best because he hated compromise and it seemed like no matter what I was always in the wrong in his eyes, even after I did everything he asked of me, like introducing him to his parents and making time to see him all the time. He suddenly decides I did so too late, when it's been months and he hasn't complained at all. I encouraged him to get a job and to go back to school and recognize his potential and instead I'm still in the wrong. He just said he isn't happy just because I said there are things he needed to work on, like understanding that me helping him with stuff isn't accusing him of stuff. It's just dumb. He'd bring up topics of the future and then get angry at me saying he doesn't wanna talk about it when I'd answer. It just seemed like I could never be right even if I was. It just sucks because we agreed to talk in person and instead he made up his mind over text randomly, is being super cold, and broke up with me days before my grad school finals. It just sucks. I don't
Know what to do. I wish we could've attempted to work it out. He was my best friend. I feel so alone now. I literally tried hard to tell him I'd do anything to work it out. He just says he's sorry.
And yes, I do agree maybe he didn't REALLY want a relationship because he expects it all to be roses and daisies and doesn't think anything is required or else he wouldn't shoot me down every time we'd try to find middle ground on anything.
PS : the craziest part is that I woke up this morning and told him I woke up from a nightmare where he dumped me today, and he assured me it was just a dream and a few hours did just that
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