marriage crumbling

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. We are in the middle of selling our house and moving to a bigger house which is a blessing but it's stressful too. Last night we got into a crazy conversation and didn't end well. I told him that I've been feeling depressed and just wanting to give up on things. I really needed him to comfort me but instead he turned it around and made himself seem like the victim. He slept in the other room even after I begged him not to and we are barely talking. I have issues but so does he. I feel like every time I confined in him about my problems he just get mad rather than being there for me. I am trying to see if I can schedule an apt with a counselor but am I wrong for thinking that he has no reason to be mad. If anything he should be concerned but he was saying that HE felt along and that HE was depressed. I don't get it.