growing up too fast

I see girls on here between 14 and 17 talking about trying for a kid, when they're just kids theirselves. If you depend on your parents, you're a kid. You don't need a kid to pawn off on them when you get bored and want to go "party". Stop trying to grow up! Be a kid, don't worry about sex. Focus on school, not on boys. Come on now, be smart.