Am I a bad parent?

My SO & I broke up a few nights ago bc he says I'm a liar about this & that & that I don't care about anything. Well, tonight, I took my mom out to dinner for Mother's Day since she has to work tomorrow. My SO was at his mom's so I asked if he wanted to watch our son (22 months old) since he hasn't seen him in a week or more. (We live two hours away & I came down for a doctors appointment.) He said him & his mom just got done eating & were at his grandparents house. Well, my mom & family didn't get seated to eat until 8:30. Done eating by 9:30 & my SO asks if I took my mom to eat or if I went to my friend's birthday dinner. I said I'm eating with my mom & he blows up calling me a bad parent and I don't care about my child because if I cared, I wouldn't have our son out so late. I can see how it may be inappropriate to have him out so late, but no where near being a bad parent??

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