We are moving into our 9th month trying to conceive. I am getting tired of the heartbreak every month when AF comes. Lots of people say when you stop trying it will happen. I understand less stress ect but how do you stop trying for something you want so badly. After this month I may try not charting , no aps , no OPks ect but I know I'll be counting days in my head and still wanting to bd at the right time.