any advice?

Question

I'm trying to get over a guy who I had been with for four years and was my first everything but also was my first mentally and physically abusive relationship I had went through.Many think it's easy because when someone doesn't have your best interest at heart or benefit you positively you're suppose to love yourself enough to know better.. and idk why it is so hard for me. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start over without someone, any hobbies or goals that's helped you get over someone?

Answer

I went through a seriously abusive relationship a couple years back. we never got closure, as I ended up in hospital because he pushed me down the stairs, and subsequently I got a restraining order filed. 
Being in a relationship with someone you love and trust that doesn't treat you well is ruining to one's self esteem and overall trust. 
Take it slow! Maybe get a pet (I adopted a cat) or try some
community activities and meet new people! most of all, don't blame yourself. you are so strong, and you can get through this. 
take your time, and don't forget to love yourself. 
best of luck sweetheart 💕💕

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