do you really have to live with your boyfriend to be together??

His mom uses him as a bank so he wants to leave and get a 2/1 apartment. But I told him I don't want to get another place on our own because I wanna finish college, save up money and actually enjoy my baby and have help while I can (my mother) . 

Now if we move in together I would have to work all the time and have no time for school and my baby would be in daycare and I might end up quitting school again just so we can pay bills. 

I want to finish the rest of my pre-nursing classes and just get a part time job. I want to have my entire focus on my baby and school I can do this while I live with my mom. 

Now...... my boyfriend just got a huge raise so he wants to get a 2/1 by his self which he can afford now. Which is great! 

But honestly i don't know I just don't want to move in with him. Ever since I've been pregnant and unable to work he's been a asshole. if I need something he would make a big deal and say "your not my responsibility I don't have to take care of you im not your daddy" WHICH he doesn't but why state something about my father when he passed away. It just pisses me off you want to call me your "girlfriend & the mother of your child" and always want me to do something for you but you can't help me get baby stuff  (that's why I ask for money)! 

But he's so selfish he can buy bottles of expensive alcohol and brag he has a lot of money in his savings to me. But you wanna complain about giving me $30 every now and then.  People told me maybe he will change after I have the baby and such, I mean maybe but I would like his support now besides my moms.