Boyfriend Problems

So me and my boyfriend are supposed to be moving into our first apartment together on Friday. But I'm the one who is packing everything, paying our deposits and insurances, gas to get everywhere and even our meals. When I ask him to just call a company or something he freaks out on me saying he's busy, all he has been doing is going out with friends while I have put all my plans on hold. I apologized for bothering him and tried to call but he just said "lol bye" and hasn't talked to me since. I am having second thoughts on all of this. I love him but I am so tired of doing everything for him and not even a thank you in return. Am I in the wrong for thinking he should at least try and help?