ftm question!! not happy had my midwife appointment yesterday 😩😩

*long read!! So since being pregnant I've been under consult care instead of the midwife care ( I still see my midwife) because I'm high risk because I have a higher bmi over the limit by one or two digits! And my blood pressure was a little high on my booking appointment and when I was at the doctors but to be fair I'm a ftm and I was really damn nervous when I had then appointments I was like 4 weeks gone.. but I'm now 25+4 and since then my blood pressure has been on point no protein in my urine literally having such a smooth pregnancy well where I live we have a hospital close by but they can't do c sections Because apparently we don't have the "doctors" there and because I'm high risk they have told me I have to drive a hour away to another hospital out of my town but the only reason I'm high risk is my bmi everything is perfect and I know someone who's just had her little girl and has a higher bmi then me and got told she could have her in the closer hospital.. and she was also high risk..