Why are people so judgy!!!

I am playing around with some names for our son 15 weeks pregnant... and everyone seems to have a imput. Names I like other people don't like they say that's a silly name or that's to girly or "do u want him to get picked on" we want a interesting name not a name 100 people have already. I don't understand why people have to be so Judgy about my child's name. I think I'm not going to tell anyone a name until hes born