low libido

my bf of two years has always had a very low libido.

he had been my first time and i discovered that i value sex a lot in a relationship, for me its the highest act of affection and love and plus i am in the mood 24/7.

now i have tried motivating him. he said he feels pressured.

i tried doing nothing. we ended up having sex twice a month (which is very little for me). he felt like that was a lot.

i just feel very lonely.

We talked about this a million times. He is very caring and understands. We bought some kinky toys but nothing changed.

He doesnt even know what turns him on. I tried sexy underwear, different places...

He doesnt even know what i can do to get him in the mood.

What would you guys do in my place? I really do not want to break up but like this i feel so incredibly lonely and also desperate.