Boys night...is turning into every night..and all day

Me and my husband has faught about this time and time again. I ALWAYS lose. .. But a few months later i get to thinking and i regretingly bring it back up. He likes to go hunting and fishing with his friends. They dont have a car...so they end up calling us almost everyday for rides...(its about 15 ppl in all that are here on work visas that only stay here half of the year...) he had them over the house...playing basketball..shooting guns..like target practice. He goes hunting and fishing...i have a 1 year old daughter. I try to go with him when he hunts and fishes but i end up sitting in the car because the baby always starts crying and pitching fits and i cant hold her all the time. ..he hasnt been working for the past 3 weeks. He hasnt been helping with the cleaning or with taking care of the baby. My stress level is SKY HiGH. He always has ppl around.nkt just one....10-15 !One of his friends is living with us. Last year 4 were living with us! Its just TOO MUCH! I keep bringing it up calmly but he gets defensive.and saw it like he isnt "allowed" to see or have friends anymore... Thats not wamhat im saying.He says that they are in need and dont have rides. And he says he lets me do what ever i want. And he doesnt say one word when i ask for something. Like i wanted to take anniversary pics. He rented a tux and i bought a dress. Spent almost $400. He shoved that in my face but i didnt say not one word about his multiple $500 guns. I suggested that we plan a date night every 2-3 weeks. He refused...my sex drive has dropped to ZERO. And even though i was really dry last night and and the night before and was not in the mood AT ALL i still let him do his thing. Even though it hurt cause i was dry. Ughh.. We are ttc and my period is due in 6 days. Im so emotional and in need or supporrt.