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My boyfriend and I are talking about getting engaged. I have a ring that is beautiful, a new car, and home we just remodeled last year while I was pregnant, beautiful baby. We are tight on money right now and everything is good for the most part. Except I keep having dreams about other guys I know! Idk why! I've never been like this and I've never cheated or anything. I'm not sure if it is because I feel like he doesn't love me enough or if it is because I'm getting nervous about being with him the rest of my life? Or maybe because he is older and isn't the most attractive? Idk why but I was hoping from mother to mother someone would be able to give me some insight. This started 3 days ago and every night I had a dream about dating someone else or just being with someone else and idk what's wrong because I was in a good place until they started happening and they make me question everything

And yes I do love him. Lol. But this is making me question things

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Su

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Think about the alternative. How would you feel if it all went away? You might be feeling a little complacent and could use some reflection and gratitude for all the blessings you have with him. I don't mean this in a judgemental way. 

St

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Don't question things. Everything seems great in your life! I think because you're so content with things you're scared of something bad happening. I wouldnt think too much into it honestly. It's a normal feeling to be scared

ch

ch • Jun 1, 2017
Thanks Stacey

CM

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I have these. It's usually about  the ex boyfriend I have not seen or spoken to in years. (And def no feelings). It's weird

Ch

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You love him but you say he isn't the most attractive? Lol that's sad

ch

ch • Jun 4, 2017
to most women he isn't the most attractive. I don't date a guy based on looks. he's handsome to me because I love him but realisticly I know he's no stallion.

Li

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Dreams mean nothing in my opinion. I'm a very happily married women and other men are in my dreams sometimes, I can't help it. Just like I can't help what other types of random dreams I have. I usually have dreams about failing at the task I have the next day - does that mean I WANT to fail? Of course not. So it doesn't mean you want to be with these guys, they might have just been on your mind. Did you look at their FB/IG/Twitter/SC before bed? That's why you dreamt about them, not because you don't like your BF.

Ma

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I have these for periods of a time, and then they go away. Some of them are about guys that I'm not attracted to, and I wake up very confused. Not sure what causes them either.

Di

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As the river cuts his path.. Though the river's proud and strong, he will choose the smoothest course. That's why rivers live so long. They're steady ...

Ka

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This happens to me, it's been going on for years... I'll have these dreams for a few days then they just stop only to come back again months later. Nothing in particular seems to trigger them, in fact, I'd say they crop up more when there is nothing negative going on! I just take some entertainment from them and otherwise ignore it. ☺️
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