Oral???

Question

I've only ever done oral once before and I didn't really enjoy it but it's something my boyfriend always asks for.. How do I become more comfortable giving oral sex???

Answer

Every other relationship I've been in, I always felt so pressured into giving oral and I hated it so much.  So much that I actually used to cry sometimes.  I was naive then and didn't understand that their behaviour was sexual harassment.  I didn't think that was possible since I was in a relationship with them, but it is.

When I met my boyfriend now though and we started getting serious, I absolutely loved it and still do!  He never pushes me or forces himself on me.  He's caring and considerate and now that I've experienced this it makes me so angry at all my exes.  I love going down on my s/o because I know it's my choice to do it.

If you don't want to do it, you don't have to.   Explain to your boyfriend that you're not too comfortable with it and maybe suggest other things you'd like to try that he'd probably find interesting too.   I wish I had an app like this back when I was struggling with this problem.  Just remember that you don't have to do anything you don't want to    😊xxxx

Oral???

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