Negative. My son is fully taken care of and I still manage to take care of myself. So tired of the stigma that comes with being a single mom. We're not all on government assistance and struggling. So far the most important thing I've learned as a new mom is that it's crucial to make time for yourself. Don't feel guilty for getting your nails done or buying new clothes. As long as your household and babies are taken care of, you've earned it.