Lost our little one
So we had a 6 week ultrasound and we had a perfectly healthy baby and heard its strong little heartbeat. Today we go in for the 9 week ultrasound and there is no heartbeat. Our little one stopped growing for some reason at 8 weeks 3 days. I went in and had a D&C done later in the afternoon. It is such a strange feeling to have everything in your life change in a 10 minute appointment. The thing that made it the hardest is we had absolutely no signs something was wrong. No bleeding at all, no pain or cramping and every appointment I had was as normal as possible. We sent the tissue off the to get an analysis done and hopefully that can give us an idea of why it happened. Please please please don't take this the wrong way but please don't respond with you're praying for me or it is part of a greater plan. I am an atheist and today has been very hard. I just needed to tell my story and talk about it to help me heal. Please respect my choices of believe in this hard time. I appreciate all of you and you're beliefs I have just already had a lot of people pushing their religious beliefs on me today and it's has made an already hard day harder. I appreciate your kindness and hope none of you that are pregnant have to go through this.
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