I hate my mother in law.

There are many reasons why I can't stand this woman. I have tried and tried with her. Things started to go to shit when I went into labor with my son at 28weeks. I was in and out of the hospital constantly. My husband told her to come visit me because she hadn't and I had been back and forth for about 2 weeks. She walks into the hospital room and says your hair looks so ugly and proceeds to put her nasty fingers in my hair. Then she looks at my face and says I need plastic surgery to remove a mole. I'm like wtf. My mom is also there thinking wtf is this lady's problem. So anyway, I have my son at 31 weeks. She doesn't visit or anything the 6 weeks he is in the nicu. She is a chain smoker so I didn't want her around my preemie or any other baby for that matter so I guess it was ok. So he finally gets home and we tell her to come visit anytime but don't smoke first. We were up at all hours with a new baby so really anytime just don't smoke first. So this bitch just never visits. She literally has seen my son maybe 6 times and he is 15months old. She lives 8 min away. Anyway she is rude as fuck when she does come over and I used to try and be nice and respectful. Now I can't even. She yells and my sweet baby hates her. She came over yesterday and he just ignored her. So she was yelling at me for it. I said you are a stranger to him that is why he is ignoring you. I'm expecting my 2nd child and I showed her the 3d 4d next to a picture of my son. She says that looks just like Glen. Glen is my husband and her son. I said well I can't really tell but everyone says the babies will look alike. So then she tells me that my step son looks just like her son and my son looks just like her son. I show her a collage and say well I think that my son looks like me too. She says no he looks like Glen. Then she looks at the collage and says that ugly child, who is that? I said that is Glen. She said that is not glen that baby is ugly. I said it is Glen and Glen still looks just like that. She then continues to say that baby is too ugly and can't be her son. So everyone looks like her son but her son doesn't look like her son. Then she says the baby has hair just like Glen, I said actually he has my hair and I show her a picture. Then she says my baby's hair is ugly and too thin and I need to brush the baby's hair so it will be thick. Say a prayer for me because I just can't stand her. And the worse she treats my baby the more I hate her smoking gambling addicted ass.

The first pic is my son and my daughter.

2nd picture is my son and husband

3rd is a collage with all family

4th is me and my son who apparently looks nothing like me

5th is my husband who looks exactly like his childhood pictures.

Thanks for letting me vent. I can't really talk to anyone else about it.