I see nothing wrong

With strongly hoping for one one sex over the other. People seriously act like if the gender isnt what we are all hoping for (literally everyone on both sides of the family are hoping for a boy)it's our first child. Its my dad & his mom's first ever grandkid. And we all want a boy. I want a boy because I was always so sad I didn't have a big brother and was jealous of my friends who did bevause of that special bond. I want to see my kids grow up with that. I love it! Only reason. Others habe their own reasons, but not like it really matters. Obviously we will love our child just as much no matter what and we mostly want a healthy baby. But sick of people trying to make me feel like dirt for wanting a boy so badly and saying "if pink powder comes out at our gender reveal it might be a lame picture because everyone will probably just be looking at each other like what?" Lol. I feel like it's a boy so will obviously be the most shocked if it's a girl. DOESNT MEAN I WONT LOVE MY DAUGHTER. So stupid for people to act like this. We spent 14 LONG months trying to get pregnant and have had all that time to talk about the gender we want first etc and since our time is here we obviously hope it turns out exactly as we imagined it to.