what do you do in this situation

Question

I found out I was pregnant and I did the right thing and told my partner. He's told me he doesn't want it and I'm really stuck at what to do. I wasn't on any protection as when I was younger I was ill and had tried for a baby in the past, so I geniuinly thought I was infertile. Ive had unprotected sex for the past 5 years and I've never had any worries. What do you do in this situation I'm so stressed out I don't know what to do

Answer

Do you want a baby? Are you physically, mentally, and financially ready for a baby? Can you handle being a single mom? Only you can decide what's best, but you have to take yourself into consideration. Think about what you want and where you are in life right now. And don't be afraid to make the best choice for you, whether that be keeping and raising the baby, placing for adoption, or terminating the pregnancy. Just know, you are fully capable of doing this without help from the father, so if he doesn't want the baby, it's his loss. You don't need him to make this choice for you.

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You should NOT get an abortion in order to please your partner. It sounds like you're not entirely opposed to being pregnant  (I'm guessing this because you said he doesn't want it.....with you it seems like a surprise but not unwanted, if I'm inferring correctly) in which case I'd suggest keeping the baby or considering adoption.

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I found out I was pregnant with my 2nd baby and my ex boyfriend and that time wanted me to have an abortion! 
I told him it was my body and I was the one who was going to live with having an abortion not him.. I then told him I did not care what he wanted! So I left him! No one should ever tell you what to do with your body... 
Even though I knew it was going to be tough raising another child on my own . I did not care! Us momma's will do anything and everything to make sure our kids are well taken care of!

Best of luck to you Hun! 
In which ever decision you make 😊

what do you do in this situation

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