The hood daycare

So I work at a daycare, mostly with infants and toddlers....but when I get asked to work preschoolers...I get pissed 😡....listen, I don't work at a regular daycare...this place is hood...this is where hood rats bring their kids..shit some of the kids come in smelling like straight marijuana and shit, I don't like that shit. The kids be dirty, pink eyes, colds, diarrhea, ring worms( I am not about that catching shit life, my immune system is already compromised..shit I got sent home for having a sinus infection and the damn shingles). I know for a fact that we suppose to be teaching the children how to be independent, doing stuff for their selves, like using the bathroom, brushing their teeth, serving their selves at breakfast, lunch and dinner. Now if they learning to be  independent, why the heck am I patting their backs at nap time? Because I bet their parent aren't patting their back at home...they are in preschool...going to kindergarten next year they are to old for getting patted on the back, they should know how to take their butts to sleep. I rather put a infant or toddler to sleep.  Manners start at home, the children I work with don't have them...and I don't answer to 'I want', I have to remind them that I won't be answering to 'I want' and that they need to correct the way they speak to me because I won't baby them, I talk to them like they are adults.