I am so sick of hearing "their fertility has nothing to do with you". I honestly don't care if it does. I believe in God and if I want to be pissed that he gives shitty parents baby after baby, but makes it hard for good parents to get pregnant then I freaking can be! Obviously I know theirs has nothing to do with mine, but I can still be upset about it. I have a right to feelings, you don't need to remind me about the difference between me and them. I can compare whatever I want to whatever I want. Simple.