7/5 Is coming up!

7/5 Is coming up! My husband family is planing this huge bbq and of course there's going to be ton of alcohol.

I recently had a mc and now I'm only 5 wks preg . We are going to wait until I'm at least 15 wks to announce to the family.

Every time we go to family events we always drink. I always have at least a glass of wine. On memorial day I found out I was prego , I didn't drink. I used the excuse that I was on antibiotics. This time I don't know what I'm going to say. ☹

Suggestions/ ideas? I'm totally thinking of just not going....