So.... My fiancee he is the greatest but he is always traveling (air force) and we decided to wait on sex till we could be together longer than a couple weeks out of a year. So just last week we tried it and it was a disaster he couldn't stay up for more than a few mins at a time and would go down when he got wet . This happened 4 times

I had to finish myself off

Granted his ex was a fridge hag that wouldn't even give him a hand job and he isn't the cheating typing.

Do you think think its psychological? Or is there a possible issues?