I'm almost 35 weeks and my family has a history of prem babies so at the moment we are on stand by and everything is ready ... my partner last night wanted to go out with the boys but said he would only go for a couple of drinks and then come home and would also not get really drunk for obvious reasons .. he's also going to London for four days this evening for work.... so for him to just go for a few drinks and come home would have been the sensible thing to do ... we haven't been getting on lately he doesn't really show me any affection or appreciation doesn't do sweet things for me like most guys do when there pregnant partner can bearly walk and is struggling with intense pressure he doesn't even help around the house unless asked and then I'm nagging ... but today he really pushed me over the edge ... he came in at 3am absolutely wasted and was banging around in the bedroom so I went to sleep on the sofa ... he then woke me with breakfast apologising for coming home drunk but at this point and apology was pointless plus he was laughing and every time I said something or explained I feel like my feelings get kicked to the curb and he's really not interested in how his actions affect me as long as he's happy and having a good time and he just gave me a cocky remark and carried on laughing like it's all one big joke to him .... I ended up smashing up the kitchen and crying histerically because the fact that he doesn't care makes me angry and upset I really feel like I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown and this stress is not good for me or my baby and since I lost my shit my stomach hurts ... please can someone tell me if I'm over reacting or whether I really am with a guy who doesn't give a fuck? By the way he's not a big drinker and he doesn't go out very often which is why he thinks I should excuse his childish behaviour. Because he's such a good catch and doesn't do anything like the other boys do ....