HIGH RISK 🤔

💚 Tydee 💚 • 2 previous MC in May & August of 2016. Currently pregnant with RAINBOW BABY 🌈
I'm HIGH RISK but I wanna start planning the gender reveal at like 12 weeks or 13 weeks I would find out at 16 weeks is that too early? or since I had 2 MC I should just wait until the week I find out just in case 🤔 HELP!