So my boyfriend is classed as disabled and his mum is his apointee and always has been and apparently always will be, according to her he signed papers at 18 to say he wanted this but he has no recollection of this, now I'm 21 so is he and we're both in stable jobs and want to move out...but because she's his appointee apparently she's saying he has to have her say so and basically permission to do so..he's a mummy's boy and won't take her off as apointee...he's perfectly capable of handling finances and his life