What do you ladies mean

Lala
When i read here on glow some women say they stopped trying and got pregnant.But how wouldnt you want to know when your ovulating.like what did you ladies do without stressing or thinking about it .Because its always in the back of my mind we re trying to have our first i been trying for 3 months and nothing and june will be my fourth.Hope its this month like what do i need to do different.