Popped up out of nowhere

So my very first boyfriend I met way back in 2012 (holy crap I feel so old!!!) At this point I was in grade 12 (graduated in June 2013)

Honestly. He was the nicest guy ever. I won't lie. I know we were both young ( he was 6 months younger than me) but he was a really good guy. However. My parents didn't approve of him (because of two reasons. One being that I hid him from them and didn't tell them immediately that I had a boyfriend. Second reason being they wanted me to focus on my education and not be distracted. And third is we are Christians and he and his family were Catholics. And yes there is a difference!!!!)

So my mom made the decision for me and said you guys can't date but you can be friends. And that's what we did. We would go to the mall, eat all the time, I went to his football games, he came to my volleyball matches, I had a Christmas dinner with his family. He had one with mine. All seemed ok.

Until he got arrested. And the thing was it wasn't even his fault. (It was about some fight that he wasn't actually involved in But a whole bunch of people for questioned) But once my parents got wind they cut him off completely. Took my phone. Wiped my contacts. Deleted my social media. Changed my number. And that was it. I never got to say goodbye.

I was devastated and to be honest with you all, eventually I forgot. He got pushed back to the far corners of my memory. I think of him from Time to time. You know. Wonder what he's doing And all that But again it's been ages since I've seen or spoken to him.

Well today I get a phone call. But I missed it because I was working. But there was a message. So I listened to it after work. It pretty much said: "Hey, this is going to sound insane but I've been trying to find you and somehow I finally did. Can we grab a coffee sometime for old times sake? I've missed you. "

(And just a side note you could hear his shaky voice and he said umm a million times as well laughed nervously. I could never forget his laugh lol)

Should I go for this coffee thing? Is this a good idea? I liked him then. Will I like him again? What would you everyone.!?!? **********UPDATE ********** Our work schedules were nuts but we FINALLY went out for coffee. And he is excalty how I remember him. Big blues eyes. Nervous laugh. Still physically attractive as well as emotionally. I explained what had happened and was so sorry and he was good about it did not blame me. I felt like we never fell apart. We hope to get together the next long weekend and do a mini road trip to our favourite ice cream joint! Ahhh I'm so happy I feel like the Lord put him back in my life (even if it is just as a friend!) I am thrilled❤

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