Is it bad

Andrew
So my wife is 20 weeks today and we are extremely excited. We went to the doctors last week and since we are doing a gender reveal party we didn't want to find out. So now the only people that know are our sonogram techs (they actually set the ball up we are using) so now my wife is wanting to know and wants to find out. Is it bad that I want her to wait or should I go ahead and let her find out? 8 more days till kickoff. We are kicking a football filled with powder