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Use an unreasonable amount of lube. You won't feel a thing 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
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For some reason when my bf and i have anal sex i just cant get used to it. We dont do it often for that reason and it just hurts sometimes and the pressure😭😫. I love to keep him pleasured and satisfied and thats one of the things he loves. Are there any tips out there that can help me like it a little more?!!
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Relax and breathe I hated it a long time then my husband bought some really good water based lube literally put some inside ur anus like maybe have him finger ur anus and lube his penis really good don't flex u have to stay calm and breathe once u get past head insertion it's not bad and feels really good
Mo
thankyou!
Lube. Wet Plantinum is great. Take it slow to start. Guide him and keep control. Also it doesn't always have to be from behind. Sit on him. Or on your stomach. Keep your legs closed, lay flat..have him straddle you. I've found arching your back is not helpful at all. It makes it more uncomfortable.
Ki
it's actually silicone based. so it doesn't evaporate. it stays wet and glides
Mo
*and
Mo
wet platnium is water based right?? whats the difference between that at regular?
I have this problem wit my current boyfriend and I hate it because I want to be able to do everything for him but he is so big. But with my ex the angle in how your laying is super important. Make sure you are at a comfortable angle and I always use a condom and then lube on that and my ass and it never hurt to bad then.
Ju
I'm normally on my knees with my face on the bed (my head is turned so I don't die lol) but that works well for me and a lot of lube lol
Al
I like laying on my side, almost like I'm in the fetal position. That's the position that feels the best for me. On my back with my feet by my head is my second favorite
Mo
ive only tried doggy style and on my back. doggy style was the worst! 😣
It used to hurt a lot for me before . Now I'm the one initiating it . I'll grab his dick and put it right up to my ass . He knows he has to come up to my neck or my ear and start kissing me while putting it in . It's the only way I'll be able to enjoy it without it hurting . I guess the kissing turns me on so much I don't focus on it hurting 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ then having him talk dirty to me helps also .
Mo
im the same way when it happens. i have to have him kiss me or else i dont feel comfortable. i guess it takes time and different strategies!! lol thanks girl:)
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