We've been TTC now for almost a year. ( 1 year on July 1st.) No luck. Our first kid took 9 months of charting to conceive so I knew this wouldn't be quick, but I didn't think it would be this long. I keep getting the question of "when is the next kid coming" and the comments of " you know you don't want your kids too far apart." If I could help it, I'd be pregnant but I'm not. Why do people feel the need to interject their comments into something that is none of their business?