why do these things happen to the best of us?💔

It all started a few days ago when I was out with a male friend I've known for years, we were seen by my neighbor and she went running back to my partners family saying we were holding hands and all over each other and we wasn't! So obviously I denied it and they all believed me. Then the same woman sprayed what looked like Lino adhesive all over my car with a note saying 'harlot whore' (harlot is an old fashioned word for prostitute for those who don't know) and it took me forever to get off. I reported her and hey can't do anything due to lack of evidence. 

So she's not talking to us now. My partner knows about my friend and is okay with it, he's friends with him too. 

Anyways l, today I went with my mum to a hospital appointment because she had found a lump on her breast. She had a mammogram and they found something abnormal (possible cancer) and they're going to take a biopsy. I can't lose my mum 😭 I'm 9weeks pregnant and I feel like the whole world is against me! 

I'm trying not to stress because of my baby, trying to be strong for my mum and show the neighbor I'm not fazed by her. But the reality is I am bothered, I am stressed and I'm breaking down for my mum. I've recently lost my job too so it's like everything's piling up and I simply can't cope 😔