Is this something to worry about?

Question

I started talking to this guy via Tinder. We went to dinner and decided after that to keep things casual because we weren't looking for a relationship. However, I kind of started to like him more than just a casual hookup.

One night I went over to his place to hook up and when I leaned over to put something on his bed side table, his phone lit up with a tinder notification saying he had a new match. We made eye contact after that but we just kind of ignored it.

I deleted tinder after we met so should I be worried he's still using tinder especially if I think I might like this guy? I just feel content with what we have/could have so I'm worried if he's looking for something better.

Answer

You agreed to a casual hookup thing but then on your part, you've developed feelings and an emotional bond, and you've gone exclusive with him. Meanwhile, on his side he's a free agent with a fk buddy. You need to walk away from this - you clearly want a relationship and he wants to play the field. It's not going to go anywhere.

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Yall agreed casual since you weren't ready for a relationship. So no... however if you've communicated your feelings to him and the fact that you want more... that would be a different story.

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he obviously is because it was agreed that y'all were just a fuck buddy type thing.

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You guys agreed to be casual so yes he's probably still on there and you aren't the only person he's dating. If you want a change in status, talk about it with him

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Honestly I feel like if you meet a guy through tinder that's just how it's gonna be if you didn't agree you're exclusive :( sorry

Is this something to worry about?

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