I'm 17 and don't know when the right time will be for me, before marriage or after, and it doesn't really matter as long as I am with someone I care about and who cares about me. But there is one question that I have regarding my first time? Will it hurt? I've read that it can and I wanted to know if it hurt for anyone when they lost their virginity and what they did about it (e.i what did you tell your partner).