back pain = bedroom problems?

Question

Me and my husband both have back pain, so neither can be on top, we just tried to have sex and we both didn't get off and then he says get on top and finish me off. I'm down for a little pain but this is rediculous now we're both laying here unsatisfied and I don't know what to do. I tried to give him head and that was a no go. He didn't even try to finger me or offer to get me off. On top of that I'm pregnant and super emotional lately. Wtf do I do?

Answer

What about edge of the bed, you on your back with legs up and him standing. You can put a pillow under your back to raise your hips up a bit too if needed.

Answer

TMI... 😳😳 Have you tried doggy style.? You get on all 4s at the edge of the bed, then move your arms down until your chest is almost flat on the bed with your bottom up in the air and vagina is easily accessible. You can rest your head on your arms.  Your SO can stand behind you and penetrate you from that angle. He will need to hold you gently  by placing both of his hands at your waist or hips to help keep you close to him while he thrusts.

Sorry if this is too graphic, but this is what works for me & my husband. I'm 6 months pregnant with my second baby and we are still enjoying sex.  With my first baby, we had wonderful sex this way up until 2 days before I had my baby.  Our bed is on the high side. It may not work as well if your bed very low, but it is possible if you use pillows under your belly to help keep your bottom up.

Hope this helps you.

back pain = bedroom problems?

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