Why can't people just STOP?! My fiancé and I were expecting, I miscarried and had to have a d&e. A month after that my appendix ruptured. Everyone knows this. The woman that made the comment is my fiancé's older second cousin and the one that set us up so she thinks she can say whatever she wants. He messaged her and asked her not to make comments like that and she said was we just need to try. WE ARE TRYING.