Demisexual dating friends

Anyone else out there identify as demisexual? (For those who don't know it's basically when you don't experience sexual desire/attraction for people unless you have an emotional connection.) As a demisexual, pansexual, queer femme I seem to date my friends way too often. Is that just me? Does anyone have advice to keep it from getting messy? It causes me to lose a lot of friends along the way because the breakups always divide friend groups and wreak havoc on my friendships.