I am so sick of people giving me advice about what I should and shouldn't do . My mom decided to tell me "you know you're not supposed to put a shelf over the baby's bed." And when the hell did I mention that I was going to ? That's just common sense ! Then she proceeds to tell me that I don't know it all. Well, I think I'm smart enough to know that I wouldn't put a shelf over my baby's bed .and then she proceeds to tell me to grow up when I got pissed off .