adults 🙄

i went onto a weight group on here asking about insecurities i had with my body and if i should loose weight, this group had adults in it and i just wanted like a yes or no answer or tips to loose weight in a healthy way and all the responses are like "you just need to love yourself and enjoy being a teen!" and it's like, i'm not asking for those responses, those aren't helpful!! all the other posts give advice and it's like??? i'm an insecure teen WEVE ALL BEEN THERE! idk just ranting.