I need your help 🙏 (How do I make it not hurt?)

Okay, so I've been together with my current boyfriend for 6 months now, but, we've been friends for forever (besides the point)

I really wanna have sex with him, and we've tried before, but it just hurts SO MUCH. I don't know what to do. I need suggestions! How do I make it not hurt?

(I know that I need to relax and I've tried, heck I even gave that advice to my friend and it helped her out so much, but nada for me)

HELP A GIRL OUT 😩😩🙏