UPSET

I just need help I need someone to talk to , I don't know what to do , I don't know if I'm just overreacting or something more is going on here that I'm just blind to . My husband has cheated on me 3 times already I found a message on his phone , on his email , from another woman , I ask him about it and in an instant he starts lying and tripping over his words . I'm freaking out because my dreams I think send me so many red flags about him , but I've done nothing but tried for this man , I've gotten us a house, a vehicle , everything we have is because of me , and every single time something will come up about another woman , it's so heartbreaking. Anyone else had this problem ?