Relationship problems

Okay girls I need your help. Ive been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now we're long distance. I have a lot going on in my life and whenever I say I need him to be with me he acts like it's them most inconvenient thing in the world. And tonight I was telling I'm this and he was okay I'll stop hanging out with my friends. he said it like a teenage girl all passive agreesive and then he told me I was being passive aggressive because I was trying to get him to stop hanging out with his friends. He thinks I'm jealous of his friends. I just don't know what to do anymore being with him is getting to be so emotionally draining. I have never had to think so much about what I am about to say before I say it as I do when I talk to him, it's like everything I have to say he makes it sound like I tried to make it sound like it was his fault I feel this way when it's not. I love him with all my heart and I would do anything for him but I'm just not sure he is what I need right now. What do y'all think I should do because I'm so conflicted?