Do you ever just give up? I'm 23 and have been trying for 4 years now and nothing :(

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Have you seen a fertility specialist? They recommend you go after a year of trying. It could be a simple fix x

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Don't give up, me an my husband were together 9 years an tried for so long to have a baby. 3 years ago I was told that i wouldn't be able to have babies I would get pregnant an miscarry, bc my body just wouldn't allow it. A year after I had my first pregnancy, an sadly I miscarried, I gave up my hope for a baby after that, I was devastated an heart broken an thought what my Dr said was true. Well this Jan I took a pregnancy test bc I hasent had my period in two months, it came out positive so I went the Drs that day an found out I was 6 weeks pregnant, that's how far I was the first time. My Dr told me yes your pregnant. She seen me again at 8 weeks bc I was spotting an thought I was gunna miscarry, well I heard my baby's heart beat for the first time, I fell in love an started crying. My Dr told me bc of my body an history that I could miscarry at anytime. Well I made it through my first trimester, I quit work when I found out I was pregnant an literally just stayed in bed all day I didn't want to stress my body. In my second trimester I was classified as high risk bc my cervix are to short I started dilating at 20 weeks. I've seen a parentologist since. I have had two rounds or steroids for my baby an a round of magnesium in case he comes early. I have had to stay in the hospital for several weeks an several different stays bc he keeps trying to come. I'm now at 34 weeks an 1 day. I am on nephetapine to stop my contractions bc I have them so often everyday. I am 70% effaced an 4.5 2 5cm dilated. My little man can come whenever he only weighs 4lbs an 15 oz. I was told this would never happen I would never have a baby, yet here I am. Yes my pregnancy has been extremely hard an scary, an I've gone through a lot of it alone, but it has all been worth it. My son is truly my reason for living, an he is my hope. So never give up bc miracles do happen.

Do you ever just give up? I'm 23 and have been trying for 4 years now and nothing :(

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