i never though it was gonna be so hard e my oldest! seriously, she loves the baby... she wanted a sister, but now that she is here, she behaves sooooo badly, we have a nanny to take care of her, and she wants me to do everything and threats the nanny super bad, she is always crying when is time for my 17 day old to eat, i try giving her all the attrntion for herself that i can but is hard to do it w a new born w cholics .... dont know if its gonna change ir should i get used to it?