I need advice

My boyfriend is in PA while I'm in MN. He has giant anger issues while I'm a soft heart girl. Pretty much what I'm saying is is the fact my boyfriend is not able to be controlled nor any of my past bf. Right now, I want to date girls again because they know what I feel because I'm soft and most girls I know understand that. If I break up with him though, he's gonna ruin me just like the other boys I was dating. What do I exactly do with my love life?