So I just went through my 3rd miscarriage. I wasn't passing the pregnancy on my own so the doctor wanted to do a D&C.; I'm 3 days post procedure. Well my brother, his girlfriend, and some of their friends went to vacation in Florida for the week. One of their friends has a baby boy that she left at her mothers house for the trip. She's only 16 and I saw that she posted a happy first birthday message to her son on Facebook from Florida. SHE LEFT HER SON... TO GO TO FLORIDA... ON HIS FIRST BIRTHDAY. Does this bother anyone else or is it just me? Am I just being overly emotional because of what I keep having to go through?

I was bitching to my mom about it and she made excuses for the girl saying that she's young and she wants to go be young. Well excuse me but when you make the choice to do ADULT things you need to accept the ADULT consequences. And who the fuck leaves their baby on their birthday?? Let alone their FIRST birthday!!

Edit:

Last time I checked this was the Rant group and this is exactly what this was. A rant. From someone who has had losses. About a person who doesn't even realize what she has.

I'm not bashing young mothers. I'm bashing an ungrateful mother who constantly calls her baby an accident/mistake and leaves him with other people all the time and even PLANNED a trip on his first birthday that she left him behind for. And as for the people saying "let her be young" You lost the opportunity when you decided to have unprotected sex, got pregnant, and decided to keep the baby giving up your 'youth' to be the adult and raise a person!

(And I'm not talking about anyone who didn't decide to make that choice for themselves. I'm the last one to ever victim blame someone so you can go on somewhere with that.)

I don't care that the kid won't even remember his first birthday. It's the principle that they left him on his first birthday to go forget he exists.