I'm 28 yo. I never thought I would still be single (unmarried) and without child at this age. Even though things are looking great in my life, marriage is definitely not the first goal for me. I think it's more important to establish my career and build my finances before I get married. The main reason is because I want to be able to afford the wedding of my dreams. As far as the baby thing goes, I feel it would be more convenient to have a baby as soon as possible because I think it's harder to start having children at the peak of your career. I'm not a courthouse type of bride, even though I've thought about it. So I'm torn between the two, even though I want to do it the "socially appealing" way, plus I have lots of young girls looking up to me. What do you think?